Mom’s post about motherhood and mental illness strikes a chord around the globe

Posted at 8:45 AM, Feb 01, 2017
and last updated 2017-02-01 12:02:20-05

OAK GROVE, Mo. -- A Missouri mom is making headlines after sharing an emotional Facebook post about motherhood and mental illness that’s gone viral.

Cierra Fortner, a married mom of two living in Oak Grove, Mo., wrote the post that's now been shared more than 90,000 times.

“It`s crazy how fast things can spread and how far they can spread,” Fortner told FOX 4.

Fortner wrote her emotional essay after a trip to Walmart with her little boys, 4-year-old Jayce and 10-month-old Brenton.

“Today I was at Walmart doing my weekly Friday shopping when the cashier says to me, 'I see you in here all the time, your kids are always dressed cute, behaving and you just seem to have it all together.' At the time I just thanked her and giggled because that's far from the truth but as I drove home, there was more I wanted her to know about me.”

Her Facebook post went on to list all the times Fortner felt like she was treading water while juggling a job, a marriage and motherhood.

“It was a great compliment but at the same time, I was just like, ‘If only she really knew,’” she said.

That small comment is what inspired Fortner’s brutally honest post in which she also opens up about her private battles with depression, anxiety and suicide attempts.

“I don`t have it all together and I probably will never have it all together, because kids are crazy and they do their own thing and test your emotions every single day.”

“It`s okay to not be perfect. It`s okay to have a mental disease and battle your own demons while still being a really great mom and a really great parent.”

It was a vulnerable message that's now resonated with other moms everywhere, being shared more than 90,000 times on Facebook and being featured in countless news publications across the globe.

“From Pakistan and I know I made the Belgian paper and just random places I would never even think," she said. "Like Switzerland, has messaged me and been like, ‘You`ve reached out to mothers everywhere,’ and everyone can contribute to this, everyone can say, ‘I feel this.’”

Her inbox is now overflowing with messages of support and she said her heart is hopeful other moms who are struggling know they're not alone.

“No matter where you are in the world, there`s a mom out there that understands what you`re going through and it`s going to be okay," she said.